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Write your own vows
Think about all the wonderful things you love about your partner and write them all down in a list.
List the ways you would like your life to be together.
Read some example vows or poems for inspiration. You'll often find something you can adapt by making it more personal.
By now you should have a lot of "raw" material to work with. Go through and pick out the 5 points that are most important for you to put across.
Write the vows.
Share them with a best friend before the wedding to see how they feel.
Tips
 Don't write the vows in one day. Sleep on them. Often more ideas or a better way of saying something will come to you.
 Get help - there is lots of it available for free on the Internet or at a very reasonable cost.
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